Northwest Members - Finger prints came back we caught him what now ??

If you all remember a while back someone poored sugar in my brake system and power steering causing over $4,000.00 in damage, well just found out the fingerprints taken from the evidence and from my car came back and they belong to my ex wives husband. now what to do since he, as well as my ex, her kid, and my two kids live in my house right now.

~Guy

So he hates you pretty bad, but he lives in your house...?

Kick his ass out and take him to court with the evidence... the kids can stay... so can the ex if shes hot...

JAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:chug: :chug:

Confront the piece of garbage. how weak and cowardly to do something like that instead of telling you to your face how he really feels. Sorry to hear this, what a bad situation for all. Really though, probably have to think about the kids first, and deal with garbage man later.
Robert

Im cool with her leaving too (my current gf is WAY hoter) but she has custody of my kids which is the only reason they are in my house. I am thinking I will go for custody and then boot them all out except my 2 kids. they have been living off me for over a year now. it hella sucks ass but they have me in a spot between the kids being involved and then theres the whole they have to have a 30 day written eviction and then I will have to take them to court and then have them removed by the police. I already have tried to tell them to leave and this is how it will go I am completely certain. in fact it he has let me know this is what I will have to do to get them to leave. apparantly he has been in this situation before. ~Guy

This is some Jerry Springer $hit if I ever saw it!

jerry springer indeed lol

This sounds like a huge mess in the making!
Is it possible to get a no-contact order for him, thus forcing him out of the house and away from you? This will cause her to make a choice. You may be able to use this situation against him towards custody as he, being the person who did this, has no business with your kids in his home if this is the way he acts towards you and your property.

In fact, since he's living at your place, this sounds like it may potentially fall under domestic violence portions of the law. If he was living in your house and is a step-father to your kids, there may be a link. If nothing else, you may need to consult an attorney as to the best way to go with things.

As far as the prints on the evidence go, I would think that the police department could build a criminal case from that, assuming that none of the items where his prints were ID'd are those which he would have legitimate access to possess. By this I mean; did he ever have legitimate access to your vehicle during the time that this happened? What about the evidence? If he was living in your house, and the evidence was from items that came from your house; then he'd have legitimate access to them. If those items of evidence weren't from your house (which sounds more likely, if he was trying to not be obvious), then that adds a lot more weight.

Throw his ass in jail and file a restraining order against him ;)

OH YEAH call Jerry :D

Dude beat his ass or be a wuse, How tough a choice is that ?

Dude beat his ass or be a wuse, How tough a choice is that ?


Yup nothing like being the only guy in the house paying the bills and getting tossed in jail so he can live in your house while you pay for it ;)

sorry man, but i don't know whether he's dummer for going out front to mess with your car, or you for letting him live under your roof. Jerry Springer would shit a boulder.

Can I borrow $100?


Okay seriously... press charges. They'll take him out for you if you call the police. Especially when you tell them he did the other gas trick and has just now threatened you with physical violence. No way does he get to stay when its not his house and he's the irrational/violent one. Tell him you just hooked up with the exwife again while he wasn't around. Tell him you did it 27 times when he wasn't
around. Tell him something [insert filty idea here] that only he would know about her so he's definitely pissed. Then call the policia :)

If you don't get rid of the bastard I seriously would like $100. I'll never pay it back... either. Because if you won't kick the dead beats ass or at least kick him out of the house you'll never really hassle me about the $100 either ;)

Not really trying to be an ass... but I want to illustrate the situation clearly.

Can I borrow $100?


Okay seriously... press charges. They'll take him out for you if you call the police. Especially when you tell them he did the other gas trick and has just now threatened you with physical violence. No way does he get to stay when its not his house and he's the irrational/violent one. Tell him you just hooked up with the exwife again while he wasn't around. Tell him you did it 27 times when he wasn't
around. Tell him something [insert filty idea here] that only he would know about her so he's definitely pissed. Then call the policia :)

If you don't get rid of the bastard I seriously would like $100. I'll never pay it back... either. Because if you won't kick the dead beats ass or at least kick him out of the house you'll never really hassle me about the $100 either ;)

Not really trying to be an ass... but I want to illustrate the situation clearly.


listen to this guy dude, hes right.

JERRY JERRY JERRY :jest: :jest:


You might better off leaving them all in the house, with the bills, and gettting a fresh start somewhere else. Prolly be less painful in the long run..

But charge his ass for the crime, settle out of court if he takes your ex, leaves the kids, and GTFO


Ken

I'm sorry about your situation, but I can NOT believe that you live with your ex and her husband. That is just a bad situation to begin with, then it also puts some confusion of the kids.

What I would do is SUE his ass, and also show his actions to the judge. They might let you have your kids, showing what kind of man your kids are hanging out with. I would sue for a grand or two over the damage, for "suffering".

Either way, get their ass out of YOUR house.

This is some Jerry Springer $hit if I ever saw it!

:stupid:

Would definately look at getting them out of the house, can't be good for you or the kids, and no telling what else he will screw with.

Sorry to say but, in my personal opinion, you're a fucking looser to have your ex-wife and her new husband living with you. You are inviting things exactly like this to happen by not dealing with this situation. Get yourself some closure get them out of the house or yourself out of the house and move on.

Then press charges.

Starve your pit bull for a week & then ask him to take it for a walk (after you slip a steak into his pocket). What a chicken-shit....

Throw him out and send him to jail, let the kids stay, let the ex stay if she puts out :devil:

EDIT... but not if you're in a "common law" state!!

press charges and get his ass outta there... someone with that level of maturity isnt fit to raise kids anyways. sorry all this had to happen.. split ups are rough. from personal experience, try not to let the kids know too much is going on.

I've been through parents getting divorced, and that is tough enough. I think you guys need to suck it up, and do what's best for the kids #1.

Definitely press charges! He put YOU AND YOUR KIDS in Danger by messing up your car. He could have killed you all. If that doesn't get him thrown in jail and topped off with a restraining order, then something is wrong. And if your ex wife is dumb enough to stay with him..maybe she was an accomplice?! That costed you a lot of money and frustration and he should definitely pay for it.

Get them all out of your house, get custody of the kids..since you are the "fit" parent.. and get some better room mates, I know there are some out there.

Just wondering.....where does his ex-wife and kids live?

OK heres how it cam about. We have been divorced for many years and she and my kids lived in Idaho for many years. a little more then a year ago she called and said she was moving away from Idaho and might be moving to Seattle or Vegas. So since I have wanted to be closer to my kids anyways I said if she moved to Seattle instead she and the kids could stay at my house till they got their own place. well then her boyfriend started coming over a lot and staying a lot and next thing I know they get married and they never left. he has disrespected me many times in my own house and I have attemped to throw him out many times but it always ends up the same way I have to put it in writing (because of the fucking bullshit laws of WA) give them 30 days and then when they dont leave I have to pay for and take them to court which will end up costing around $2,000.00 I already looked into this. Then if that isnt enough they are using the kids as leverage.

So yea first instinct is rip him limb from limb but where does that leave me in regards to my kids and there is also the whole I go to jail while the pieces of shit live in my fucking house. so yea fun times. but now things are moving in my favor with this new evidence against him. god I cant wait till its over.

~Guy

Sell the house.

This is some Jerry Springer $hit if I ever saw it!

:jest:

u dont need to say anything to him or her bout it and press charges. and when the cops come or the papers show up in the mail be like oh yea i forgot to tell u ...my bad. and then kick em the fuck out and send his ass to jail!!!

Dude this has been going on forever, its pretty crazy. Although now that I have a kid I guess I understand, but really you have to take care of yourself. I can't imagine kids living in the middle of that.

Seriously you should call the Jerry Springer show you could fight him on there.

Press charges and get a restraining order against him for what he did and that will get "him" out of your house. If your ex wife wants to go to, then fine, let her, tell her she can leave the kids. Then fight for custody of the kids.

Or just go to the guy right now, show him your evidence and tell him you want him the f*ck out right now or he's going to jail. Period. I wouldn't even want the guy near me or my kids..and I'd damn sure still be afraid for my car..especially since you just got the new motor in it.

WHO IN THE HELL DO YOU THINK PUT HIM UP TO THAT SHIT?????? No dude, you gotta protect yourself and get OUT OF THERE!!! Sell the house or she will get that too!! she is not "your pal still" NO WAY did he do that and she not know!!!:sack:

Don't worry about the kids,....if things work out for them good just tell them the truth when they are old enough to understand. and if they do not work out get a lawyer and get custody. and don't be surprised when the judge finds out what THEY did to you and gives you your kids.

There's one thing I don't understand: Why an ex-wife husband lives in YOUR house?

Don't call Jerry Springer, call Tom Leikys! :judge: :chug: :cheers: :cool: :thumb:

I agree with the idea of selling the house. If you can't.... then burn it down and stack the deck against him so it looks like he did it. lol

Obviously the kids are very important to you and they should be. But don't you think they think something is weird going on? Kids are NOT dumb! I think your doing more harm than good by letting this go on in their pressence. They will respect you more if you fix this situation.

How old are the kids and do they know what is going on? They don't ask questions?

To be honest with you, I think I respect your ex and her boyfriend more than you for being able to pull that off, as disgusting as it might be. I don't know one person that would allow that to happen. I think you risk having health problems from the stress if you don't do something.

Ummm...... :bang:

PRESS CHARGES, RESTRAINING ORDER... Judge will award you custody of the kids given that your ex and her w/e do not have a place to live, and that your ex-wife's boyfriend is a danger to their lives. Get it done and over with. No questions, no hesitations... your kids emotional and mental health are in total jeopardy while you have 3 parents under one roof--one being a maniac who puts sugar in gas tanks and brake lines--raising them.

FUCKING A

1. Pay the $2000 and send him to jail

2. Accept that it probably won't turn out in your favor with the kids. Your wife is going to retain custody more than likely. That's the fucked up way it is in this state with our bullshit laws. Hopefully when she moves out she won't go far and you'll still have your kids close by.

3. Self respect demands that you stop providing for the person/persons who screwed you over while figuratively spitting in your face. Your not a door mat. PUT THAT M/F IN JAIL !

this is one F'd up situation

start turning off utilities!!! make living there a living hell. no gas, no electricity, no phone, no cable TV, nothing. and make sure that the utility company's must have your permission to turn them back on.
get your stuff out of there, and put it in storage first. find a place to crash in the mean time. you can even tell them the house is for sale, and they need to get the F out.