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05-07-2008, 08:35 AM
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Got to love coming home Well I just got back from Iraq. Wife told me right before I got home she wanted a divorce. Get home a few weeks early and 
caught her with her Army LT fiance from Ft Hood. The look on her face was priceless... especially when he got escorted off my property. The sorry guy wouldn't even look me in the eye in my own house even after he called me a coward for going to his chain of command. Needless to say my stuff was trashed. 
My TA was in the barn with flat tires where it had been sitting since Feb. Lt was play with my wife and kids in my house but couldn't even get on my lawn mower and cut the grass. Plus I don't think the soon to be ex cleaned house since I left. She is about to get hers though... her ex and I are going after custody of the kids at the same time so she has a chance to lose all her kids in one day. Plus he is in trouble for violating a no contact order with my wife. Sad part in all this is I worshipped the ground she walked on. All she did when I was home was laundry and watch my daughter during the day... I did nearly everything else after work. Guess it wasn't enough for her. Hope she loves life after I get my daughter and her ex gets the boys.
caught her with her Army LT fiance from Ft Hood. The look on her face was priceless... especially when he got escorted off my property. The sorry guy wouldn't even look me in the eye in my own house even after he called me a coward for going to his chain of command. Needless to say my stuff was trashed. My TA was in the barn with flat tires where it had been sitting since Feb. Lt was play with my wife and kids in my house but couldn't even get on my lawn mower and cut the grass. Plus I don't think the soon to be ex cleaned house since I left. She is about to get hers though... her ex and I are going after custody of the kids at the same time so she has a chance to lose all her kids in one day. Plus he is in trouble for violating a no contact order with my wife. Sad part in all this is I worshipped the ground she walked on. All she did when I was home was laundry and watch my daughter during the day... I did nearly everything else after work. Guess it wasn't enough for her. Hope she loves life after I get my daughter and her ex gets the boys. 
05-07-2008, 08:45 AM
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Take it in stride man, no big deal, just another worthless woman. Get your kid and sue her *** for destroying all your stuff.
Oh and bang one of her good friends or her sister too.
Oh and bang one of her good friends or her sister too.
05-07-2008, 08:38 PM
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i'd just bleed her brakes in the night or something, but that's because i'm hateful like that. hopefully it works out for you, and she ends up getting the worse end.
05-07-2008, 11:30 PM
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Get the kid and leave as much of it in the past. If anything learn your lesson about women...they can't be trusted when your in hostile areas. I got back from 6 months on our anny only to find out she was in "love" with a frat boy...needless to say that kid still fears me 
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05-08-2008, 06:19 AM
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05-08-2008, 11:33 AM
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conduct unbecoming of an officer..
on a different note dont people watch NCIS. GRANTED its a tv show..
a dude was going around killing wifes that where sleeping around on their husbands while they where deployed.. NOT giving any ideas to you by all means.
Just saying there are some jacked up people out there
on a different note dont people watch NCIS. GRANTED its a tv show..
a dude was going around killing wifes that where sleeping around on their husbands while they where deployed.. NOT giving any ideas to you by all means.
Just saying there are some jacked up people out there
05-08-2008, 11:57 AM
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so sorry to hear this. it sucks that this happens to so many of us while we are deployed. seems like many of todays dependent wives aren't just cut out for their job and commitment to a Military guy.
05-08-2008, 02:34 PM
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Yeah, these chicks love a guy in uniform and love being able to say that their spouse or bf or gf whatever is in the mil but then when that military man deploys they cant hack it. But, on the fair side you all know theres chances in the desert to get some as well
05-08-2008, 05:06 PM
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Sucks to hear that man, It seems like more and more spouses are doing this kinda thing. Women are like fish in the sea there is always a better one out there. Hopefully you get you daughter and your soon to be ex will get what she deserves. If I were you I would beat the living hell outta that lt.
05-09-2008, 08:05 AM
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If it all works out, she will get what she deserves. She is looking at losing all her kids and him his job. They may be living in a little shack with nothing but each other. It is just the waiting to see who is going to get temporary custody of the kids. They postponed my case till the 20th b/c her ex's lawyer served her the papers for his case in the courthouse hall while we were waiting for our case. It was priceless. Needless to say the judge combined the temp case together so she can lose all three kids in one day. Sad part is she thinks she was completely justified in doing what she did. I know we had our problems like any marriage but having him in my house and bed is not justifiable. Maybe she will learn to communicate with her new man a little better so she doesn't keep repaeting this in her life.... doubt it.
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Just make sure you take it easy till the custody of the kids is decided. You dont want to give that bitch any ammo against you on that front. After, then well.................
05-09-2008, 10:04 AM
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Oh I am minding my P's & Q's... right now I am sitting pretty and nothing is more important than getting custody.
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You should look into what the criminal side of this would be for him. For example, if he was AF you could charge him with adultery. This should be the same for Army. I know that you are just looking to have him out of your life, as far as the kids are concerned but, a few years in a federal pen will make just about anything go away! Just a thought, I like the sound of jail time for a jackass like that.
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You should look into what the criminal side of this would be for him. For example, if he was AF you could charge him with adultery. This should be the same for Army. I know that you are just looking to have him out of your life, as far as the kids are concerned but, a few years in a federal pen will make just about anything go away! Just a thought, I like the sound of jail time for a jackass like that.