hotrodth

ok as some of you know i put a ls1 and a4 in my 07 toyota xrunner. so far im not liking the auto. so im thinking about swapping to a t56 mag. with monster stage 3 clutch. problem im having with the auto is i dont like how it shifts up to fast and it dont kick down like i want it to. and it also shifts soft. i had doc at efi alchemy tune it but i dont know if its right or if it is just the way a stock a4 shifts. here is my delema. if i cam the truck i will have to stall it which $700ish for a fti. to build the tranny it is $2200ish. so im over 3k. i just need some input from you guys out there. what would be my best route. i the auto cause i can relax by not shifting, but i also like the m6 when its time to play. so pls give me as much input on both factors. thanks again guys