Violated!
I don't blame you for crying, I would probably still be crying. To answer your question though, it's hard to say without seeing the damage, but IF the clear coat is completely gone in those areas, you will never get it perfect. You can try some products like Meguiars ScratchX and it MIGHT take off the edges alittle bit. You could also take it to a detail or body shop and see what they can do with it, may be able to wet sand and buff. Of course you probably realize the only way to totally fix it is to repaint.
A moment of silence for the vandalized f-bod please.

I wanna know what you decide to do, cuz something like that happened to my front bumper

