Cam/Gear/Converter?
If you have the ***** to put an MS4 in an A4 daily driver I would honestly bump the gearing up to 4.10s. If you have a factory 3.23 or 3.42 gears (3-series carrier) you can actually get 3.90 gears, which is a happy medium between 3.73s and 4.10s. If you have factory 2.73 gears your only option is 3.73s or 4.10s.
I daily drive a stock cammed 4400 stall w/ 2.5str and a rebuilt 10bolt with 4.10s. I get about 10-15mpg city driving and 15-20hw miles.
If I were you, I would get the MS4 cam and supporting valvetrain mods and a big stall and keep whatever gears you have for now. I ran high 12s with full bolt ons, 300lb diet and a 4400 stall w/ my 2.73s. 4.10s will be a kick in the pants but with an MS4, big stall and sticky tires your 10 bolt isn't going to last very long.
I would consider just doing the cam and stall and then saving up for a 12 bolt because you WILL need it at some point. That way, you can get the 3.90 gears and a rearend you will never need to worry about. If you do not want to get a 12bolt ever I would stick with the 3.73 gears because the 4.10s are a thinner, weaker gear and will launch you harder and be more likely to break it.
Just remember when you get your stall/rear/gears/cam etc that you can save an assload on gas mileage with your overdrive and lowering your stall lockup speed to 20-25mph. It will lockup in city and hw driving and still be a killer at WOT. Good luck!
EDIT: As for the stall, I would get a Yank 4400+ stall with 2.5str. I daily drive my Fuddle 4400 and after a month or so you get used to it.






