Which harness/ECU do I look for?
If it were me and I needed a harness with minimal connections, I'd hit up one of our sponsors like PSI or BP Automotive that specialize in making stand alone harnesses. Used harnesses can go for $150-350+ depending on the condition and who's selling it and then you still have to spend a pretty significant amount of time cleaning it up and removing all of the un-needed wiring. Or you can pay a little more ($500+ depending on the harness) and get a brand new one made specific to your engine.
If you want to find a used harness pretty much any 99-02 truck/SUV harness will work since all of the 4.8/5.3/6.0 engines basically had all of the same connections in the same places. It's not all that hard to modify your own harness if you want, just be prepared to spend a full day or two on it if it's your first one. You can check out lt1swap for tons of really good info, excellent step-by-step instructions, and a very reasonable pcm reflash service.

