im sorry for this dreary thread, but i need help. mods i now this is SSU material so i hope everyone will post there. im just kinda freaking out right now and i dont know what the **** to do.

NO ASSHATS

my issue: http://www.seatstaysup.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4984

 

man you need to move on honestly, any chick that thinks she needs a baby in life "to make her happy" is all about drama. Go out find yourself a goodlooking non pregnant girl and have at it with her, with a condom on!!! I know how it is to feel shitty and depressed and think about everything that you just did with her. I just had to break up with my gf of 6 years we were probably like 6 months from being engaged but i realized that she just wasn't right for me, and its tough real tough. Although its hard now you will be doing 1 of 2 things 1 down the road you'll be kicking yourself in the *** because you didn't leave this girl alone. Or 2 you will be thanking the people that said leave that child alone. PICK YOUR POISON.

 

I agree with most of the people giving you advice. You obviously have seen help, you obviously are in a better position to make something out of your life... she obviously isnt there yet and you are only bringing yourself down by associating yourself with her. BELIEVE ME i know. I have been in your same exact position except with different circumstances. I was tryin to help out my best friend (guy friend) for like 3-4 years. I tried my hardest to show him how stupid he was in his decision making (drugs, drinking, etc...) and not only did i accomplish nothing, but i drug myself, my reputation, and almost ruined my life. I didnt graduate high school cause i didnt go to school, etc... just like this guy. After a while it hit me that i was turning into him slowly and i didnt realize it. I also realized that he was beyond help because he hadnt hit rock bottom yet and he wasnt willing to help himself. So i totally excluded myself from his life.

What happened? he only got worse and worse and it did hurt to see that... now he's in jail for armed robery and possibly doin 5-10. But he's never been better. He got his GED in jail and he's just doin much better. I know you might not be a man of God, but I am and I can only say that its all up to Him and he's the only one that can help her, it took me 4 years to realize that, but the only thing u can do is pray for her and be a positive encouragement to her. But it seems like you are doing well for yourself and i encourage you to keep it up and not let things/people like her to get you down. Ill keep you and her in my prayers.
Sincerely,
-Ryan

edit: err sorry about posting here, im not a member of SSU, but if i need to move this over to SSU then just let me know.