After install of headers and some spirited driving/ hard banking turns/ hard acceleration out, I am blowing f22 fuse which is abs vlm. Where would I even need to start looking to find the culprit wire?

 

Abs module is on the passenger side verify it's harness doesn't get close to primaries and look for melted sections .



Driver side there is a harness connector on the brake booster. I'd check to see if those are close to the primaries at all.

 

Sounds like you burnt the harness on the passenger side of the engine bay. It needs to be routed on the other side of the coolant overflow tank after installing headers.