Very Low Preload #'s - sound right?
What caused the preload to drop that far?
Is it usual to have a different preload on exhaust/Intake?
What pushrod lenght should we go with?
im working through a similar issue now my self.if you can get a dial indicator you can measure your preload a little more accurately. i know if you end up with to much preload you can damage your valvetrain, collapse lifters, and even burn up valves and seats.
let me know how it goes, my car seems down on power and even seems to loose lope once the engine gets really hot and expands.

