4L60e problems
4th gear is a combination of 3rd gear and 2nd gear; other than a strange valve body problem, I cannot think of any way you could internaslly have 4th gear and not 3rd.
Yes, disconnecting the trans harness is a good to test if 3rd gear works. If you are sure that gave you 3rd gear, based on RPM and MPH then 3rd gear is mechanically working. However if the trans will never shift into 3rd, I would suspect a shift solenoid, wiring harness or PCM problem. It sounds like the trans is internally shifting into 1st gear and since the car is faster than the engine, it feels like free-wheeling.
Unless a pro here has better advice, I would start by replacing the solenoids. Also make sure the connector on the harness doesn't have a bent pin which would have affected both transmissions.
Alternatively, we could assume that both transmission are good and limit ourselves to the connector, the wiring harness and the PCM.
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