built tranny and 2500 stall
With 2.73s you will find that a 4000 is VERY loose. With 3.42s it will feel much better.
3500 is a pretty good choice for a street car. A lot depends on how you plan to use the car and tires you will get.
Ideally you should be matching the stall to the power band of you engine /gear / tire combination. But, as we all know that is usually a moving target... nobody keeps the same gear or cam for extended periods anymore. So, in a stock configuration you will be much happier with a stall around 3200 - 3600 rpm. With that tall of a gear you need to get the engine rpm's up for the launch and then for the duration of the pull. And if you do any engine mods in the future you'll have enough converter to work with most likely.
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