So my marriage is over....
12-26-2008, 12:08 PM
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either way, **** dude... im sorry...
12-26-2008, 02:21 PM
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That really is one of the few truly great results of all this actually. 
12-26-2008, 02:26 PM
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and bouncing from room to room, it really was an amazing night. 
Then we all went to IHOP the next morning (minus the bride and groom of course who were on their way to the airport) for some more funz.
12-26-2008, 05:35 PM
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Ken u know how I feel about u and your ex and it saddens me that u couldnt work it out but I know what thats all about and I know both of u will move onto better things as I have and my ex has too..
Again u know how I feel,if u ever need to talk just PM or give me a call
Your a good guy Ken and I wish u the best
Again u know how I feel,if u ever need to talk just PM or give me a call
Your a good guy Ken and I wish u the best
12-26-2008, 10:18 PM
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Sorry to hear that the marriage didn't work out for you two Kenny.
I guess I feel lucky that things have worked out for us, as our ten year is this may. We've been through tough times, but in the end it's been our commitment and love for each other that has pulled us through, not to say it's been all happy bliss. I hope you can find the same one day.
I guess I feel lucky that things have worked out for us, as our ten year is this may. We've been through tough times, but in the end it's been our commitment and love for each other that has pulled us through, not to say it's been all happy bliss. I hope you can find the same one day.
12-27-2008, 12:36 PM
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Sorry to hear man,
It especially sucks considering it is the holidays..
Stuff like this is exactly why I am resisting marriage with my g/f of 6 years
In my eye's it isnt broken so why fix it or damage what we have already..
It especially sucks considering it is the holidays..
Stuff like this is exactly why I am resisting marriage with my g/f of 6 years
In my eye's it isnt broken so why fix it or damage what we have already..
12-28-2008, 12:01 AM
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12-28-2008, 05:21 AM
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12-28-2008, 10:31 AM
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16 years for me and two kids also. Hopefully it will get easier, but it definately sucks over the holiday. Fortunately for me the kids like being with me more than the myspace freak.
12-28-2008, 08:08 PM
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Going through the same BS now but mine is much worst because we have three kids (2 year old twins and a 10 year old). The whole thing would wrap up pretty easy if we didn't have any kids. PM me if you need any advise. A few things that I will tell you here and I'm not even stretching the true -
You really don't know the person your with until you goto divorce court.
When you goto court... THEY LIE!!!! Not supposed to lie under oath? HA!!! My wife and her attorney lied like it was their job! Actually, wife's attorney... yeah, it is her job!
Plan for what is going to happen. Especially before you get served.
Make sure you interview many attorneys, find the ones that don't charge for the first visit, compare what they say, see who you are comfortable with, ask friends who they have used, don't lay down, don't back down, don't believe it's going to be fair, do what you have to so you can make it fair.
It might suck right now. There might be days when you don't want to get out of bed, don't want to eat, don't want to go out with friends ect... It will get better! And when it does get better, your probably going to think - "hey, I like this!".
Good luck!
Tom
You really don't know the person your with until you goto divorce court.
When you goto court... THEY LIE!!!! Not supposed to lie under oath? HA!!! My wife and her attorney lied like it was their job! Actually, wife's attorney... yeah, it is her job!
Plan for what is going to happen. Especially before you get served.
Make sure you interview many attorneys, find the ones that don't charge for the first visit, compare what they say, see who you are comfortable with, ask friends who they have used, don't lay down, don't back down, don't believe it's going to be fair, do what you have to so you can make it fair.
It might suck right now. There might be days when you don't want to get out of bed, don't want to eat, don't want to go out with friends ect... It will get better! And when it does get better, your probably going to think - "hey, I like this!".
Good luck!
Tom
12-28-2008, 09:35 PM
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Yeah..I was in your shoes 10 years ago.. My X/Gold digging wife Cheated on me and put me throuh hell.. As they say life go's on!! If it wasnt for my friends helping through im not sure what I would have done.. Being alone is not what you want to do..Thats just gives you lots of time to think to bring your self down..Hang out with your true friends and try to go out and have a good time.. Wish you best of luck!!
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12-29-2008, 05:42 PM
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Kenny
I'm sorry things didn't work out. That really sux. It sounds like you will be happier though, and the fact that you don't have kids is truly a fortunate thing in this case.
My brother just went through the same thing, so I kind of know what it can be like. Like you, he did not have kids so he has rebounded pretty well and is happy.
Now that being said, buttsechs l8r?
P.S can I get my wedding gift money back? I can really use the $20 (I was feeling a little generous that day)
I'm sorry things didn't work out. That really sux. It sounds like you will be happier though, and the fact that you don't have kids is truly a fortunate thing in this case.
My brother just went through the same thing, so I kind of know what it can be like. Like you, he did not have kids so he has rebounded pretty well and is happy.
Now that being said, buttsechs l8r?
P.S can I get my wedding gift money back? I can really use the $20 (I was feeling a little generous that day)
12-29-2008, 06:00 PM
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Kenny
I'm sorry things didn't work out. That really sux. It sounds like you will be happier though, and the fact that you don't have kids is truly a fortunate thing in this case.
My brother just went through the same thing, so I kind of know what it can be like. Like you, he did not have kids so he has rebounded pretty well and is happy.
Now that being said, buttsechs l8r?
P.S can I get my wedding gift money back? I can really use the $20 (I was feeling a little generous that day)
I'm sorry things didn't work out. That really sux. It sounds like you will be happier though, and the fact that you don't have kids is truly a fortunate thing in this case.
My brother just went through the same thing, so I kind of know what it can be like. Like you, he did not have kids so he has rebounded pretty well and is happy.
Now that being said, buttsechs l8r?
P.S can I get my wedding gift money back? I can really use the $20 (I was feeling a little generous that day)
Get back to changing diapers and stop wasting time online!
