Pics of custom rearmount
the oil i have tapped on the fitting right about the oil filter...so it runs from there to my turbo...that hose is only 3/16" with a .035" restrictor....
on the drain side of the turbo i have 3/4" hydrolic hose, so that should be letting the oil out plenty fast for what is comming in
If you put on a cheap needle valve then this will help alot of problems. You need to cut the pressure down even more. 
