Since you checked all those things, I thought I'd just bring up the neutral sensor. I have no idea what this part looks like or where it is, but I've got a '99 manual and if I depress the clutch pedal all the way and turn the key, dash lights will go out but nothing with the starter. I've gotta keep the pedal a couple inches off the floor and then it will turn, and it was suggested to me by a mechanic that it could be this sensor. Now I don't know if automatics have this same sensor, but going by fundamentals, I would wager that they do. Of course, if changing this sensor requires procedures that you can't perform on your own, then you might as well just take it to a shop to have it looked at...
Oh yeah, don't forget the starter relay and/or fuse. Your manual has a diagram to help you identify its location. Good luck.
Last edited by Crimsonnaire; Dec 23, 2013 at 05:47 AM.