F**kin Depressed!
F**kin Depressed! If this comes off as kinda fruity post i apologize...But anyways. Well my parents and my sisters are going to be moving in the morning up to WAY Northern Wisconsin, (Eagle River) and im going to be left here all alone. I Honestly did not think it was going to bother me, being 21 and on my own with my own place and everything i was thinking will be sweet. See my parents house is currently up for sale, however they havent sold it, so im going to stay in it until i can get my apartment in Sep. However though on the flip side im going to have NO family here. All of my aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins live up there, and im here alone basically.
Im not ready to move up there cause in all honesty there isnt much to do for a 21 year old guy up there. That combined with the fact i have lived in the same house, in the same town since i was born and thinking that someone else is going to be living in it makes me sick. I understand though im going to have to move out and thats liveable, but the fact that im not going to have my family around me everyday after work, and eating dinner together and all that just totally freaks me out.
Also i havent even seen my apartment, but im taking it no matter what because its like 2 block from where i currently live and i can still walk to work, and all the little comforts of my small town, but its just not going to be the same..But i dunno, sorry for the rant guys, im sure everyone wants to read that..haha but i consider some of you guys like family so i figured why not..
Im not ready to move up there cause in all honesty there isnt much to do for a 21 year old guy up there. That combined with the fact i have lived in the same house, in the same town since i was born and thinking that someone else is going to be living in it makes me sick. I understand though im going to have to move out and thats liveable, but the fact that im not going to have my family around me everyday after work, and eating dinner together and all that just totally freaks me out.
Also i havent even seen my apartment, but im taking it no matter what because its like 2 block from where i currently live and i can still walk to work, and all the little comforts of my small town, but its just not going to be the same..But i dunno, sorry for the rant guys, im sure everyone wants to read that..haha but i consider some of you guys like family so i figured why not..
It's alright man. I got separation anxiety when I moved out from the nest too. It will go away with time. It'll be weird at first but you'll get used too it. Try getting a place with some buddies, you'll be too busy getting into **** to feel depressed. Plus it sounds like you have a good family life, so I'm sure your parents door is always open to you if things don't work out with you on your own. Good luck.
Right i know..My parents told me if i ever need a place im always welcomed..The thing with my buddies is that mostly all of them are moving..2 of my real good friends, i mean we have been tight since we were in diapers are moving to cali at the end of september, and my other best friend might be heading out there too, so its like everything is happening all at once, and its a REALLY scary feeling..
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Im kinda going through the same family situation right now myself. I'm 20, my folks retired and bought a place in AZ so our house is goin on the market any day now. My sister already lives in TX and my bro is getting married in a month and moving up to Madison. I dont have any other family anywhere near here. i dont know if i have any new advice for ya, just dont let stuff like that bother you, you can always go visit if ya feel the need. Also living with friends is a great idea, im livin with some cool people right now since my lease started before the house was gone. Its different but youll get used to it, makes you grow up real quick.
i'm almost to where you are, i'm 19 and will be moving out sometime towards the end of this year......my biggest fears are change and being alone, i guess thats the only 2 things holding me back in life
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You know I'm always here for ya Jake. I just picked up my bike, so we will have to go cruising again real soon. Maybe hit up Orland Hooter's where I know your favorite waitress will be 
P.S. When winter time comes, can I bring my snowmobile up there & stay with your parents? How old are your sisters? I am imagining you, just with breasts... Oh god, it is burning!!!
I am only kidding 
P.S. When winter time comes, can I bring my snowmobile up there & stay with your parents? How old are your sisters? I am imagining you, just with breasts... Oh god, it is burning!!!
I am only kidding 
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It's a very strange feeling at first to move out on your own, but soon you'll go from having all this newfound extra time to fill to thinking "wow, I wish I had more time" 
Hang in there....it'll get better.
Hang in there....it'll get better. 
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LOL JacobK I'm a *****. I'm a crybaby, I need to grow some ***** and stop whining, noone cares that I'm going to be all alone. I need to get a hooker or a crack ***** I'm desperate, goddamn. I like to act tough but as soon as I gotta deal with life I turn into a punk.
Edited: Stop re-registering you dumbass! You will never be welcome here. Go away, go find the rock you crawled out from and get back under it. Above is what you get for constinantly re-registering.
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Edited: Stop re-registering you dumbass! You will never be welcome here. Go away, go find the rock you crawled out from and get back under it. Above is what you get for constinantly re-registering.
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Last edited by BigD; Aug 11, 2006 at 10:49 AM.
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Originally Posted by Z28CamaroDude
LOL JacobK I'm a *****. I'm a crybaby, I need to grow some ***** and stop whining, noone cares that I'm going to be all alone. I need to get a hooker or a crack ***** I'm desperate, goddamn. I like to act tough but as soon as I gotta deal with life I turn into a punk.
Dean how are you still Alive?! WTF... Someone needs to just hit this kid with a sledgehammer and permentantly ban him from tech.
Deal with life eh? Dean, daddy bought you your Camaro and set up your neon for racing I dont think you have the slightest clue what a "real life" is about.
Last edited by BigD; Aug 11, 2006 at 10:50 AM.
Dean shut the **** up already. Go take your camaro and go drive it off a cliff. You are nothing but a worthless piece of **** who takes up oxygen. You talk smack about everyone on here, but yet to still IM everyone and wanna be friends with everyone, and you talk all big and bad, go lift some more plastic weights you pathetic ****. Your nobody, and i love the way you say, "Im going to corners, you guys are going to regret it." Yet all you do is sit in your car and do absolutely nothing..
Wow Dean, I guess you didn't take my advice before the 20th time you were banned. You are a joke. Everyone on this site, as well as Chitown knows you are the biggest *****. Ha, you told Rich and I that you were scared to see either of us because you knew we would hurt you. And Jake is the *****? Get real man. I would tell you tokill yourself or put yourself in a mental hospital, but you provide way too much entertainment for us!
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Jake, I said you should find something to keep you busy and take your mind off things. Just kick the crap out of Dean next time you see him at corners, that should provide hours on entertainment. He'll probably cry and not hit back, but ever play kick the can? Fun for days for no reason.
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Originally Posted by Matt D
This is the same person who said he has never had a girlfriend nor has had sex with a woman...only men :roflmao:
You cant have sex with a man! Dude that so doesnt count... How do you...
Oh Dean you're so hopelessly lame...