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Dictionary.com defination of a relay.
Basically you're taking really high current (from your battery) and putting it to the solenoids. To activate this you supply small low current to the relay. This closes the switch, allowing your solenoids to get their power from the battery. The relay is really just seperating the high current from the low current by adding a switch which is "flipped" by supplying power to it.
Nothing has constant power supplied to it unless it is switched into the "on" position.
Hope this answers your question.
I would put the purge on switched like the rest. Just like said above, you dont want anyone in there pushing the purge button while u got your keys in your pocket not in eyesight of your car.

