psychotic ex?
Truth be told a couple of the single guys in the club wanna hit it,and acted on the oppertunity by dismissing you....
I think a donkey punch is in order!!!
and as far as your comment about insecurity, i'm only mentioning one single incident that was the straw that broke the camels back so to say. there were plenty of other things that she's done that created trust issues. she was already on thin ice before this, and i finally had enough.
this particular thing is more about a relationship etiquette issue. i feel it is innapropriate to hang out with your significant other's friends without them being around (exceptions of course for things like pre-existing mutual friends, etc). i've never had a girl try to do that to me before, and i've never done that to a girl before. some may disagree with me, but thats just the way i feel business is to be done.
i brought her along to the monthly meets purely because she lived over an hour away from me, and i only saw her on weekends... i didnt feel it to be right to send her home so i could do my car thing. i brought her along, and while i talked cars with the guys there, she talked to the girls... some were members, some were just gf's of the guys there. i was ok with this at the time, as it gave her something to do, and i didnt feel that i was dragging her along to my stuff. well one day she decides to sign up for the forum... i was NOT ok with this because its like the car scene is MY thing... its kinda like my escape, my 'guys night out' kinda thing. she was invading my personal space, and i told her that i was not ok with this and i didnt want to bring her to my car meets anymore. she said she understood and agreed to not go on the forum anymore and not go with me to the meets anymore....
at one of the next meets, she decides to just show up on her own. i show up and she's already tehre. i go inside the restaurant to confront her about it... i quietly, yet sternly, state that we need to go outside and talk (so as to not create a scene)... she yells out loudly that she wont talk to me about it, and then one of the girls in the car club demands that i leave. i ask her on what grounds should i leave, and all the officers come out of nowhere to ask me to go outside because they dont want ME there CAUSING trouble. i decide to go outside to take a quick walk aroudn the parking lot to blow off some steam. i go back inside, calm, and recollected, and again im asked to not go inside.
the worst part of this all, is that i was a paid member of the car club, and the officers were defending my ex-gf's word over mine, even thought she was there purely to cause trouble. they stated that its a public club and anyone that wants to can come to the meets, and that i have no right to force her to not show up. while that may be technically true, they put the attendance numbers of the club ahead of the personal situation of someone that i thought i was friends with.
from that day on, no one there ever looked at me the same again. she started hanging out with them outside of official club functions without me, and that was pretty much the final nails in the coffin on our relationship. i told her i'd forgive her if she made it all better, but that never happened.
just my ideas
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Havent talked to her in over a month until last night and i go over and well its 3 oclock PM when i woke up and yeah im a ******* idiot lol
i dont want to post specifics on a public website. i'll tell you more in person sometime.







