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Old 03-31-2011, 05:13 PM
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Default Crazy ex gf situation.. what would you do?

Basically my ex will not accept we are done..

i have blocked every number including her friends, she now makes AIM sn to contact me and calls from lines at work i haven’t blocked.

I didn’t really care as it wasn’t really affecting me, Until now.

She has now started to spread rumors and lies to everyone.

Every girl i talk to she starts **** with or lies or tells them to stay away because we are trying to work things out.

She has even screwed up a friend of mines relationship telling a guy my friend was talking to we hooked up.

Now idc if she’s trying to **** up my life.. but when she starts messing with others who have nothing to do with this, it pisses me off.


Now this girl is trash, she’s being a little ****, and she is a pathological liar, and all around horrible person. Don’t ask how i was so stupid.

Now the dumb girl was using my old cellphone even after we broke up, so when i got it back i got to see all the txt messages

Well the girl is playing this poor guy, being a little ***** trying to hook up with everyone, and leading atleast 5 guys on. and just lying and being a total piece of ****.

Now i warned her MANY MANY times that if she didn’t leave me alone and stop talking **** about me, i was going to send each one of these guys all the txts.. or even worse just make this **** public.

Well she still won’t stop.

I personally don’t give a **** but now that she’s hurting other people close to me i really really feel like i should **** her life up too..

what would you do??

Would you make her txts public?

or atleast Inform the guys she’s talking to to **** her life up a little?




and sorry for the spacing/typing.. I’m not trying to write a paper for english class here, I’m trying to make it easy to read!

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PICS OF SAID EX.... jk.. man its hard to say what i would do i havent been in that situation before.... i am sorry for yo troubles
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Pics of ex or bs
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we will need to see pics before we can help you make an informed decision...but seriously, sounds like harassment to me, it would not hurt to check with the police and see if you can get a restraining order.
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been in your shoes.
Best thing is what i can a "Make over"
Change everything. your screen names emails numbers door locks anything she had access to. Go to the police station and make a report of you being harassed,
Just in case she comes looking for you.
You can file another complaint and a restraining order can be processed faster if there is more than one complaint.
Dont fight fire with fire.
Be the adult in the relationship and move on.
Some people may or not agree with my advice.... but it worked for me.
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lol at this point id love to post even more than pics.. but i’m not that fucked up

anyways basically what i’m asking is would you guys Post up all her txts on Facebook?

or maybe message the guys she was talking to and expose her as the **** she really is?

would that make her stop? haha
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Originally Posted by who281
lol at this point id love to post even more than pics.. but i’m not that fucked up

anyways basically what i’m asking is would you guys Post up all her txts on Facebook?

or maybe message the guys she was talking to and expose her as the **** she really is?

would that make her stop? haha
could stir up more ****.... but if u dont care then do it...
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im surprised no one has mentioned pics yet....
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Originally Posted by who281
lol at this point id love to post even more than pics.. but i’m not that fucked up

anyways basically what i’m asking is would you guys Post up all her txts on Facebook?

or maybe message the guys she was talking to and expose her as the **** she really is?

would that make her stop? haha
Dont do it,
Like i said be the adult in the relationship.
Get the law involved. But if your that angry....
In the end its your life.
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WS6KID is spot on...Don't Fight Fire with Fire... You don't want to post **** on social networks, email text these other guys, that could be defined as harassment as well. Just go file a complaint and start documenting her egregious behavior. If **** goes really south, you will be best served by having a documentation with the police...
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Originally Posted by Ws6kid.
been in your shoes.
Best thing is what i can a "Make over"
Change everything. your screen names emails numbers door locks anything she had access to. Go to the police station and make a report of you being harassed,
Just in case she comes looking for you.
You can file another complaint and a restraining order can be processed faster if there is more than one complaint.
Dont fight fire with fire.
Be the adult in the relationship and move on.
Some people may or not agree with my advice.... but it worked for me.
Ya man i threatened to do that.. i’ve thought about it..

and Ya i know it would be immature to stoop to her level.. but damn this bitch is pissin me off! lol
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Thanks guys, I think i just needed to calm down again. Ya i would never post it up on FB.. i almost sent individual messages to the guys tho..

Glad i didn’t. it would be immature and probably start more ****.

Well if it continues i guess its time for the law to get involved.. **** i never thought id be in this situation. hahaha
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Originally Posted by 98mysticZ
PICS OF SAID EX.... jk.. man its hard to say what i would do i havent been in that situation before.... i am sorry for yo troubles
Originally Posted by stewdy1
Pics of ex or bs
Originally Posted by XtremeBBQ
im surprised no one has mentioned pics yet....
SKIMMER!!!

OP, I would make the break up public as in post it loud and proud on your facebook or wherever. If you post the txts publicly you're dragging the guys she was talking to into this too which from what I read had nothing to do with her being a psycho b!tch. My .02
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save the facebook drama for facebook?
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Originally Posted by Ws6kid.
been in your shoes.
Best thing is what i can a "Make over"
Change everything. your screen names emails numbers door locks anything she had access to. Go to the police station and make a report of you being harassed,
Just in case she comes looking for you.
You can file another complaint and a restraining order can be processed faster if there is more than one complaint.
Dont fight fire with fire.
Be the adult in the relationship and move on.
Some people may or not agree with my advice.... but it worked for me.
^^^This
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Is this the hot little girl from the Verizon commerical they keep showing?!?!?! U know the one hiding in the tree and your closet?
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Originally Posted by Ws6kid.
been in your shoes.
Best thing is what i can a "Make over"
Change everything. your screen names emails numbers door locks anything she had access to. Go to the police station and make a report of you being harassed,
Just in case she comes looking for you.
You can file another complaint and a restraining order can be processed faster if there is more than one complaint.
Dont fight fire with fire.
Be the adult in the relationship and move on.
Some people may or not agree with my advice.... but it worked for me.
I agree with this as well, if push comes to shove and you have to get legal, I bet she will stop, even the threat of it may stop it. Definitely don't drop to her level though, it's not worth it. You want to be able to sleep at night knowing you were the better person with nothing to regret.
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Originally Posted by 5w20
save the facebook drama for facebook?
There is a reason i didn’t post on Facebook.. I hate drama.. so i wanted opinions from people who did not know her without starting ****.

and Thanks for the logical opinions, glad i didn’t do anything stupid.
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pics of said or girl or it's bs.lol


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