Going through some hard times
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Going through some hard times Sup Guys. Need your guys help. Going through a seperation of my girl of 3 years. She moved out a week ago and there is no signs of us getting back and it is killing me. My whole life was mostly about her. Then being tha Holidays makes it harder. I dont want to sound desperate but I need some friends to help pick me up through this hard time. I really need some things to keep my mind off her. I know you guys can help.
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Spanky
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Spanky
Sorry to hear the news Spanky. I think we have all been there before though, and it really does suck during the Holidays. Just do your best to pull yourself out of the house and go do some things you enjoy, and maybe visit friends and family that you haven't seen much of lately.
Sitting around the house is a BIG mistake in situations like this. It gets depressing. Go out and interact with some people, and it will help pass the time. Take the T-tops off of that WS6 and go for a long drive with the radio cranked. Time heals all wounds, but it is up to you on how you choose to spend that time.
Tony
Sitting around the house is a BIG mistake in situations like this. It gets depressing. Go out and interact with some people, and it will help pass the time. Take the T-tops off of that WS6 and go for a long drive with the radio cranked. Time heals all wounds, but it is up to you on how you choose to spend that time.
Tony
I know how you feel. I recently lost my pride and joy my mother. Eventhough it was not a girlfriend it hurt like hell especially when she got murdered. I was depressed for over 2 months and even to this day I still cry sometimes when I go to sleep. Time does not heal everything, but will ease the pain. The only way I make it threw is to keep myself busy and hanging out with friends. Sorry if I was not much help. Just move on and enjoy life.
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Yo Spanky,
I am sorry to hear about that but you will make it through it. Just keep your head up and keep on going every day. I beleive the Hooters meet is tonight and I will not be able to make it to hooters but maybe later on in the night to sonic. So if you need to get out and do something I'd go for that if you can make it.
Just remember every thing will turn out okay so don't stop smiling!
Ps: If you need me shoot me a PM.
~Matt
I am sorry to hear about that but you will make it through it. Just keep your head up and keep on going every day. I beleive the Hooters meet is tonight and I will not be able to make it to hooters but maybe later on in the night to sonic. So if you need to get out and do something I'd go for that if you can make it.
Just remember every thing will turn out okay so don't stop smiling!
Ps: If you need me shoot me a PM.
~Matt
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I know what youre going thru man, been there twice myself and my brother is going through that same **** right now. Usually takes about a month before you start acting normal. Also playing Halo 2 and drinking Shiner helps!! 
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Originally Posted by mtywty
I know what youre going thru man, been there twice myself and my brother is going through that same **** right now. Usually takes about a month before you start acting normal. Also playing Halo 2 and drinking Shiner helps!!
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whatever you can, but have some standards. Thread Starter
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Thanks Guys. If you are from DFW area and want to hang out and chill and have some fun.. LETS DO IT.. I will be at Hooters later tonight and come hang.. Thanks guys.. Call me sometime guys at 817-714-6262.. I know not to sit around the house cause it does me no good at all.. So if any of you are going to a PARTY or just to hang out give me a shout.. I really could you the time away.. Bright side.. BACHELOR PAD..
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Damn man, I know how you feel. When I broke up with one of my previous girlfriends of a serious relationship, I was a depressed, pathetic mess. Gotta move on and get your mind off of her. As soon as she hears you're out and having fun and w/ other ladies, the tables may turn. Keep your head up and the gas pedal down, and life will be good.
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Hey I agree with Nine Ball. We have all been there. When it hapened to me and my Son`s mother I thought I would be depressed for ever. Don`t stay at home and dwel on it man but most of all don`t do anything stupid while your out either. And when these guys say they know just how you feel...... don`t think they are just talking ****. I know it sucks, but man it takes a while. Somtimes a long while. Go out and have some fun, and do stuff that you didn`t usually do befor because you were with her. Just don`t and go do things because you know she will get pissed if she saw you doing stuff. Just ''TRY'' to go out without her on your minde. By the way I learned all this $hit from Dr. Phill.LOL not really
Go out & have fun, enjoy life. Every day you waste in/on the past is just another one in the past. It's not easy, I've been there 3 times myself, just keep your head up & get involved with your friends & family and maybe dive into work & work more hours or get a second job to use up idle time. The work thing really worked for me, I started doing crazy over time & it paid off well because I didn't think about her as much & I got mad mod money as well. Keep your chin up bro, it will get better sooner or later...just get out & meet some new people as well.
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Sometimes when you at your lowest just a friendly message on the boards will pick you up... Man when it is you having this kind of problem in you life it seems like you are the only one with that problem... Thanks Guys for the support and lets keep on keep on living the day and eating rice for lunch... Damn did I just say that... Well the next guestion is going to be anyone have any single friends they could hook me up with? Or just call me and just hang out and have some fun...
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Originally Posted by mtywty
I know what youre going thru man, been there twice myself and my brother is going through that same **** right now. Usually takes about a month before you start acting normal. Also playing Halo 2 and drinking Shiner helps!!
Some things that are great about this is more money in the pocket and I can just go and do whatever i want to now...