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05-31-2005, 01:05 PM
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So the date was awkward, awkward but good. We went out to dinner, had a good time. Decided to meet up with some friends, out of the circle friends, at a hole in the wall bar. Well, who should end up there? The ex, and a girl I *cough* got to know last summer. I don't think the girl I was with knew anything about the other girl, so I didn't mention anything. I talked to her ex, he was cool with everything. It was still weird though, I noticed him looking over at us alot. Needless to say, we didn't stay long. All in all, it turned out alright. Thanks for the advice guys.
05-31-2005, 01:41 PM
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I for one am completely against the whole "being friends after splitting up thing." Especially if it was a sexual relationship. It just never works out. If she is still "friends" with him, and they have been sexaully active in the past, they will bone again, it's just a matter of oppurtunity. Have no doubt about that. It's just the way it works. When a guy and girl split up, then they need to split up for good. Just my .02. In anycase, I guess I'm just saying don't get too wrapped up into her, if she is still "hanging" with him. You will get burned in the long run, and I'm sure some most of the guys here on the board will back me up on this.
05-31-2005, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by WS6snake-eater
I for one am completely against the whole "being friends after splitting up thing." Especially if it was a sexual relationship. It just never works out. If she is still "friends" with him, and they have been sexaully active in the past, they will bone again, it's just a matter of oppurtunity. Have no doubt about that. It's just the way it works. When a guy and girl split up, then they need to split up for good. Just my .02. In anycase, I guess I'm just saying don't get too wrapped up into her, if she is still "hanging" with him. You will get burned in the long run, and I'm sure some most of the guys here on the board will back me up on this.
I agree with you 100%. I am not friends with any of the girls I have dated. You may lose the attraction, but it's still confortable if you get with them again. They called off everything, friendship and all. They said hi, but after that she walked off to catch up with me.
05-31-2005, 02:23 PM
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Cool...well it sounds like you two should get to know each other better. I personally think that it would still be a cool idea to talk to the exboyfriend, and get his thoughts on everything though seeing as how the two of you share mutual friends. If everyone treats it like a grownup relationship, then everything should be fine. Good luck.
05-31-2005, 11:58 PM
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Oh, I'm married. This is just a little side action. 
Yeah, when I talked to the ex he said it was cool and that she had already told him that she wanted to give me a try and that they should probably not associate anymore.
Yeah, when I talked to the ex he said it was cool and that she had already told him that she wanted to give me a try and that they should probably not associate anymore.
06-01-2005, 02:42 AM
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That's a touchy situation. Either way, you have a chance of losing. If you go for the girl, your firend may get mad. If you don't take the girl, you risk losing out on a potentially good relationship.
That's your call. It never hurts to ask someone what they think before you make your move. The worst thing that can happen is he will say no, that will upset me.
That's your call. It never hurts to ask someone what they think before you make your move. The worst thing that can happen is he will say no, that will upset me.
06-01-2005, 02:43 AM
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Originally Posted by 99BLACKBIRD
Oh, I'm married. This is just a little side action. Yeah, when I talked to the ex he said it was cool and that she had already told him that she wanted to give me a try and that they should probably not associate anymore.
Yeah, when I talked to the ex he said it was cool and that she had already told him that she wanted to give me a try and that they should probably not associate anymore.
