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Old 05-04-2011, 06:39 PM
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Hey all:

Its a little long but way worth the read. I am sure everyone has had something like this before, I know I have.



One day, when I was a freshman in high school,

I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

His name was Kyle.

It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?

He must really be a nerd."

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.

They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.

He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him h is glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks."

They really should get lives.

" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

There was a big smile on his face.

It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.

As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.

He said he had gone to private school before now.

I would have never hung out with a private school kid before

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends

He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.

I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!

" He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I be came best friends..

When we were seniors we began to think about college.

Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to NC State

I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

Kyle was valedictorian of our class.

I teased him all the time about being a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak

Graduation day, I saw Kyle.

He looked great.

He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.

He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.

" Thanks," he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began

"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.

Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...

I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the


story of the first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved.

My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.

I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions.

With one small gesture you can change a person's life.

For better or for worse.

God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way.

Look for God in others.
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Very nice.
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wow. thats deep. and a great story.
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That's a good story....
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Way to be a classy guy man! There needs to be more people like this in the world!

Congrats on creating a forever friend and saving a young kids life!
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Very Deep story and a great read, thanks for sharing bud really makes you think
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That's some deep stuff man, I bet u feel good that such a small gesture could make such an impact on a life...
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Btw your a great guy for doing that and being the bigger person and giving the kid a shot and selfesteem
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If only more people were like you. And him
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Thank God you were there. Please keep the good spirit. God bless you.
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Very nice man. I am grateful to have the friends i made in high school, who didn't even go to my school!! I graduated 10yrs ago and they are still my brothers til this day.

Always better to put yourself out there, you never know where these types of relationships will lead. Sometimes they fade, sometimes they remain and are more meaningful than we can ever comprehend, til moments like yours of course. for being a good guy and a great friend all those years.
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Very nice Is that actually you and a friend in that story?
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You my friend have my respect... Great story
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Originally Posted by 1 BLOWN V8
Hey all:

Its a little long but way worth the read. I am sure everyone has had something like this before, I know I have.



One day, when I was a freshman in high school,

I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.

His name was Kyle.

It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?

He must really be a nerd."

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.

They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.

He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes

My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him h is glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks."

They really should get lives.

" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

There was a big smile on his face.

It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.

I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.

As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.

He said he had gone to private school before now.

I would have never hung out with a private school kid before

We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.

He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends

He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.

I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!

" He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, Kyle and I be came best friends..

When we were seniors we began to think about college.

Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to NC State

I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

Kyle was valedictorian of our class.

I teased him all the time about being a nerd.

He had to prepare a speech for graduation.

I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak

Graduation day, I saw Kyle.

He looked great.

He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.

He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.

He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.

Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech.

So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"

He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.

" Thanks," he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began

"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.

Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...

I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the


story of the first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.

He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.

He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved.

My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.

I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions.

With one small gesture you can change a person's life.

For better or for worse.

God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way.

Look for God in others.
Man almost brought a tear to my eye...j/k. but on a serious note if we had real americans like yourself . We would respect one another more often. Your kindness saved a life, Us tech members should solute you as one of are military men/women serving this country......"MAY GOD BLESS U"

im gonna post this story on my facebook.hopefully it will shine some light.
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Good story but definitely not him in it. I got this e-mailed to me like 2 or 3 yrs ago. Or is it really about the OP???
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Hey all:

No, it was not me, that is why I quoted in the beginning " I am sure everyone has had something like this before, I know I have. "

I did something similar for someone also many years ago and I changed there life forever.

However since then I always try to make a difference in someone's life.

Last year a friend of mine lost his job and is a single father. My wife and I went out and purchased a ton of toys for his 2 young boys, wrapped them up and gave them to him so he could have a nice Christmas with them.

Year before that had a employee that was having a very hard time and for thanksgiving My wife and i purchased all the food for they could have a nice thanksgiving and also purchased a ton of toys for his young daughter for Christmas.

Every year my wife and I try to make a difference in someone's life one way or another.

I just wanted to post this to hopefully make people think and hopefully help someone some day.
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Great story!


Originally Posted by 1 BLOWN V8
Hey all:

No, it was not me, that is why I quoted in the beginning " I am sure everyone has had something like this before, I know I have. "

I did something similar for someone also many years ago and I changed there life forever.

However since then I always try to make a difference in someone's life.

Last year a friend of mine lost his job and is a single father. My wife and I went out and purchased a ton of toys for his 2 young boys, wrapped them up and gave them to him so he could have a nice Christmas with them.

Year before that had a employee that was having a very hard time and for thanksgiving My wife and i purchased all the food for they could have a nice thanksgiving and also purchased a ton of toys for his young daughter for Christmas.

Every year my wife and I try to make a difference in someone's life one way or another.

I just wanted to post this to hopefully make people think and hopefully help someone some day.
We need more people like you and the one from this story in this screwed up world!
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Thats great man. My best friend just got back from a combat tour in Afghanistan, had a break down and everything. I never thought id ever be able to tell him I loved him. Known him since 3rd grade. And honestly I wouldnt be like this if it wasnt for people like you that helped me out when I was younger. So THANK YOU!



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