Vats issue
- There is no reason to replace a starter relay which is working (the starter cranks) because once the starter has done it's job the relay isn't used again until the next time you go to start the car (i.e. the relay is completely inactive during normal operation). I would suspect the fuel pump relay instead - you could try swapping it with the adjacent A/C relay and see if that makes a difference.
- It's not the BCM because if VATS was shutting off the fuel after the car had started, it would also turn on the security light so you'd know right away.
I think you're looking at a second issue, other than VATS, which is causing your car to shut off after starting. Do you know anyone who might be able to check for error codes for you? If this was an old Chrysler, I would immediately say you have a bad ballast resistor (those exact symptoms - the car starts but dies as soon as you let go of the key), but modern cars don't use them anymore so that isn't much help... it just shows how old I am.






