So my marriage is over....
12-25-2008, 05:44 PM
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Marriage What a lousy Holiday Season.
My wife and I are done. We got married Oct 2nd, 2004 and now its done, barely four years later. I won't get into details other then to say I guess we both have grown apart. She moved out 5 weeks ago and lives about 10 miles from me. I'm staying in our house for now, though its for sale. The Camaro will also be for sale shortly. Their is not much I can do except move on and turn the page.
Here we were 4 years ago....
http://img357.imageshack.us/my.php?i...11339pmrp9.jpg
My wife and I are done. We got married Oct 2nd, 2004 and now its done, barely four years later. I won't get into details other then to say I guess we both have grown apart. She moved out 5 weeks ago and lives about 10 miles from me. I'm staying in our house for now, though its for sale. The Camaro will also be for sale shortly. Their is not much I can do except move on and turn the page.
Here we were 4 years ago....
http://img357.imageshack.us/my.php?i...11339pmrp9.jpg
In the mean time...go hit as much of that stuff as you can and enjoy.
12-25-2008, 06:46 PM
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My suggestion, forget about her and examine yourself and understand your mistakes so that your next wife can benefit from your 1st failed marriage. It took me 3 failed to find one right...your just lucky kids werent involved because thats a drama all in itself that no person should have to endure.
In the mean time...go hit as much of that stuff as you can and enjoy.
In the mean time...go hit as much of that stuff as you can and enjoy.
And don't get rid of the car if you can help it. I still have my 97Z that I had from my 1st marriage and have no plans to get rid of it ever.
Just remember plenty of people have been through this before and you can too. I now have heard of no less than 5 couples getting one in the last few months. The economy must be playing havoc on some of these.
Mike
12-25-2008, 09:58 PM
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Nice looking couple, too bad. Divorce rate is well over 50% in this country so you're not alone.
It can happen to anyone, a couple that my wife and I know are only married a few years and it's going to **** as I write this.---and they do have a child.
Keep your head up.
It can happen to anyone, a couple that my wife and I know are only married a few years and it's going to **** as I write this.---and they do have a child.
Keep your head up.
12-26-2008, 01:30 AM
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i dont know you but i am sorry for you especially during the holidays. im young so i cant say i have been there but i can say that you shouldnt get rid of the car. sometimes its the little things like that that can get you through a bad day.
12-26-2008, 01:47 AM
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I think this hits especially hard for people such as Alex (quoted above) and I. We both met and have known Kenny and Steph as 'already a couple' since 2000/2001 and were both at their wedding (one of the most fun weddings I've EVER been to) so it sucks to watch this unravel but **** does happen unfortunately. Better they figure this out now instead of later on in their 50s after 20+ rough years of marriage. 
12-26-2008, 01:57 AM
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x100I've been happily living in my cozy 2 bedroom condo for over 12 years now and it certainly does make it easier to maintain/own fun cars versus living in a big house.
12-26-2008, 03:08 AM
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Wow, Kenny I don't know what to say. That really sucks man. You guy's made such a great couple & went through alot of BS in begining up here in NJ. I'm so sorry to hear this news.
12-26-2008, 08:53 AM
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I think this hits especially hard for people such as Alex (quoted above) and I. We both met and have known Kenny and Steph as 'already a couple' since 2000/2001 and were both at their wedding (one of the most fun weddings I've EVER been to) so it sucks to watch this unravel but **** does happen unfortunately. Better they figure this out now instead of later on in their 50s after 20+ rough years of marriage.
either way, having spoken to Kenny about this many times over the last few months, I know he is better off this way. on the outside at least, he seems to be happier now.
plus now, he is free to have all the gay sex that he wants!
12-26-2008, 10:24 AM
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I was absolutely taken back by the thread when i first read it. I also attended the funnest wedding I've ever been to with Kenny H. The Hotel nite was insane with all of us and well me Calling everyones room saying "HOUSE KEEPING" FRUFF JOR PIRROWS"! Hell I had my crazy ex-along for that one. Kenny and WS6transam01 know i've had my share of shitty times with the women. So i've become slightly hardened on the inside for a while but now i'm about to go the stupid route and get married on Aug 29th 2009. I have no words of encouragement or things to say to make easier even after going through this crap twice. Things that helped me IMO was get right back on the next ******, hang out with friends, race the car aka dont sell the FN thing pisses them off even more when they see you with the car they swore you would've had to sell to make it, keep busy busy busy. Go out have fun and enjoy yourself. Hey atleast you probably have that cool orange tan that you had when I met you. Oh Alex/Ws6transam01 says what helped him through is rough times is a teddy bear with a hole in the bottom and some liver warmed up in the microwave. Just throwing that out there just in case Kenny.
Seriously though I'm really sorry for things not going the way we all wish it would. Sometimes its just better off this way. Scares the crap out of me but im not getting any younger and I hate to be alone. I beat off so much the thing turns red and then i beat it cause it turned red. Its a no win situation. Just remember take a look at your right hand and look at the woman and think of all the things that you needed her for and how much more your hand can do with out complaining. You can now practice the stranger method. (sit on you hand till it goes to sleep then beat off). Or you can do a Dutch Rudder with AlexV. (You put your hand on your Johnson and Alex moves your arm to rub one out with little to no effort from you. This is not gay cause his hand is not touching you weiner.... well so i was told by Alex)
SMOOCHES ALEX
12-26-2008, 11:46 AM
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