Really bad news ends what was a great weekend....
07-16-2006, 04:45 PM
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Really bad news ends what was a great weekend.... Got home from the Noyzee party to get hit by some bad news... One of my best friends took her own life today... She had some issue's she's been dealing with all of her life but in recent years had been doing better. But the last few months she was dealing with the break up with her boyfriend (one of my best friends since 1st grade) and she went down hill fast. She lost weight and has been in and out of the hospital... I know it's a little 
for this site... but it feels good to get it out... everyone around me is crying but I can't... it still doesn't seem real
Scottywheels you might recognize the pic... she's the one that you talk to at eastside when I picked up my vette after you guys did the headers last summer...
for this site... but it feels good to get it out... everyone around me is crying but I can't... it still doesn't seem real Scottywheels you might recognize the pic... she's the one that you talk to at eastside when I picked up my vette after you guys did the headers last summer...
07-16-2006, 05:11 PM
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Thanks guys.... It's just fucked up, I talked to her about her problems for 2 hours two days ago... and although she was sounding pretty down, she also sounded positive about putting alot of the **** behind her 
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She is a pretty girl, and that is a shame. It's just too bad she did not seek professional help for her problems. Don't feel guilty about not being able to help. Once someone decides to take their own life they do it quickly. Normally there is a period of what seems like they are doing better. That is only because they have come to the decision to do it and are at peace with it. I had a close friend do the same thing while I was in college. Seemed like nothing was wrong then he shot himself in the head.
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tim, real sorry to hear that man, suicide is the worst, i know! its soooo stupid and selfish, but it happens.
very sorry to here it man
very sorry to here it man
07-16-2006, 08:14 PM
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Thanks guys.. It still doesn't seem real.
Dave: She has been seeking professional help... She had been dealing with some pretty serious issue's for a long time and has been in and out of the hospital for years. The break up with her boyfriend was only the latest of her troubles. It was actually yesterday before I left for brads that I had that long talk with her... And last night she was at a huge party surrounded by friends... I guess she'd just had enough
Dave: She has been seeking professional help... She had been dealing with some pretty serious issue's for a long time and has been in and out of the hospital for years. The break up with her boyfriend was only the latest of her troubles. It was actually yesterday before I left for brads that I had that long talk with her... And last night she was at a huge party surrounded by friends... I guess she'd just had enough
07-16-2006, 10:51 PM
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That sucks to hear Timmy 2. If you need me or any of us you know where we are and will help you out. On a side note its nice to see you made another safe trip to the Noyzee garage 
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Timmy 2, sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. the last time i lost someone close to me, i felt that if i had been able to see the future, then i could have done something to stop it... but based on what i knew at the time, i was doing the best i could to help that person out. i really tore myself up about it, but what's done is done and you cant beat yourself up about hindsite.
my thoguhts go out to her family and friends, and I hope you feel better too.
-Matt
my thoguhts go out to her family and friends, and I hope you feel better too.
-Matt
07-17-2006, 01:32 AM
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Very sorry to hear this, I dont really know what to say. It does def suck though, one of my very close family friend actualy got dumped on the phone on his way home from a party and he decided to drive up a tree in his old T/A still doesnt seem real was about 8 yrs ago. Sorry things couldnt work out better for her and her family/friends. 