My mom died tonight at 12:22 AM in a motorcycle accident.
10-27-2008, 08:59 AM
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Mikey, I am very sorry about your loss man. Death is a tough thing to deal with...especially sudden death. So many things you wish you had said, and so many ideas come into your head making you wish you had been there to prevent it. I dont know what else to tell you except to not let the hate and disgust for your mom's husband tarnish the good memories you have of your mom. As hard as it is, fight through the anger and focus on the happy memories. Crying doesnt hurt anyone. We all do it...we are human. Besides, you just lost your mom...I think people will understand. Keep your chin up and go surround yourself with the family members you do still have. Let them all know how much you love them...they need your help too, I am sure.
God Bless
Chad
God Bless
Chad
10-27-2008, 11:22 AM
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I lost my mom a little over a year ago..she was 42 I was 17..I know how you feel man.. But look at it this way if you can live thru that you can live thru anything. Losing a parent sibling or any loved one is the most pain you will ever feel. Trust me. Me and m y mom were very close. You're just going to have to stay busy that's the only way it will make it not AS hard but it will never be easy.
10-27-2008, 11:38 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I can only imagine how you must fee. 
I know how painful it is to lose someone from a bike wreck. I lost my best friend in 2006 to the same thing; he wasn't wearing his helmet and a mini van hit him head on. He died instantly on impact. I still break down every now and then, and to this day I refuse to get on a motorcycle. I tell everyone I know to be careful and if you can, don't get on one. Just seems like too much to risk for a joy ride. I can't help but be bitter still about bikes..I'm afraid all my sadness incurred has turned into complete disgust toward the things. I really cannot stand bikes and empathize with anyone who feels the same pain of loss from bike-related deaths.
If you really insist on riding those wretched things, please, be careful. And as they say "Look twice, save a life."
You and your family will be in our prayers.
And if you need to vent or anything, you can feel free to PM or email me.
I know how painful it is to lose someone from a bike wreck. I lost my best friend in 2006 to the same thing; he wasn't wearing his helmet and a mini van hit him head on. He died instantly on impact. I still break down every now and then, and to this day I refuse to get on a motorcycle. I tell everyone I know to be careful and if you can, don't get on one. Just seems like too much to risk for a joy ride. I can't help but be bitter still about bikes..I'm afraid all my sadness incurred has turned into complete disgust toward the things. I really cannot stand bikes and empathize with anyone who feels the same pain of loss from bike-related deaths.
If you really insist on riding those wretched things, please, be careful. And as they say "Look twice, save a life."
You and your family will be in our prayers.
And if you need to vent or anything, you can feel free to PM or email me.
Last edited by MissTransAm; 10-27-2008 at 11:54 AM.
