Question about a situation.
i hate brown nosing myself, but i tone that hate down a bit. currently i'm working under a manager who actually hates brown nosing himself and all is well. eventually the brown nosers get their titles and the "cream rises to the top."
that ex-army guy gave you an opportunity to go above and beyond to help out. this is something that would have been taken into consideration later on if an opportunity for a raise or promotion came up.
in these hard economic times, it is best to put your emotional sensitivities aside while trying to make your way to earning a decent buck. if you do your job, he may eventually give his words that sugar coating you feel entitled to.
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But on a serious note. You pretty much screwed yourself. Your job will be an uphill battle from now on. Best way to go about it now is to apologize. With this economy, I bet HR has like 100's of people applying there every week. They could easily give your job to someone else. I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.
After all, its your job, not ours.
Bottom line, you're in the wrong. He can tell you or ask you--if you don't like it, quit the job. If you need the job, grit your teeth and put up with it. Outside the workplace he's not your boss & you can brush him off if you don't like something about him. During work though, you're only employed for the benefit of the operation as a whole, so **** your feelings (mean that in a nice way, in case you really are sensitive
). If you don't need the job, well don't put up with it.
If I was a manager I would have asked you if you could help me out by clocking in early. No need to be a dick and demand things or be condescending. It's unprofessional and unnecessary to thrown around your weight as a manager. I would rather be respected as a superior so that employees will want to go above and beyond the call of duty than hated and have employees try to f*ck me over at their first chance.
Sometimes it takes someone with ***** to stand up to these ********, in my experience they might even respect you after. Damn the man!!!!






