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Old 04-07-2009, 11:44 PM
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This is my first time posting here, my name is Miguel and i work for Icon Autosports. My really close friend of over 10 years was killed after he lost control of his mustang and slammed into a tree on long dr. in s.e. Houston on Saturday afternoon. He had an ls1 in it and loved to race, win or loose it was just his passion, he loved the joy of it. He was making a few runs in front of his shop like we had done millions of times, witnesses say he hit a pot hole and his front passenger suspension (strut,spindle, wheel and fender flew off) he lost control and hit a tree. One of his techs and a friend along with other witnesses ran to the scene and tried to revive him, but it was to late. I just got back from the church and saw him in his casket, and cannot believe it, i got this man into the racing scene when i met him on Westhiemer over 10 years ago and we became so close, should i blame my self for this?, but then again when you saw him in his car, he was like a 10 year old with a new toy!!! He was always at the track and loved this sport ,he died in his beloved car, doing what he loved most, i just never tought it would end like this. His car can be seen on khou news key words "91 ford mustang slams into tree". He will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of meeting him, to my friend.....gone but never forgotten

Otoniel Chavez or as everyone called him "My Friend"
You will be missed

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Old 04-07-2009, 11:58 PM
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RIP Chavez. I knew him through my buddy Emiliano. We raced a couple times too. Hate to see him gone.
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Man i knew the car ran it couple of times. Rip Bro
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No, you cannot blame yourself. The Lord works in mysterious ways. He died doing what he loved.

Prayers for you and his family.
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Sorry about your friend man.
May he RIP
Old 04-08-2009, 12:54 AM
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sorry about the loss. i know your pain.
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DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF!

If he didn't enjoy what he was doing, he wouldn't have been doin it for the past ten years. We all know the 'risks' of our sport or hobby with our cars and at any time, anything can happen.

RIP Chavez and prayers to his family and to you and yours.......
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I know it's hard but I hope you feel better soon....
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My condolences, my cousin died two nights ago when his trailer came unless and smacked him into a tree. God does work in wierd ways.
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Man that is sad. RIP
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I'm sorry for your loss. I lost a close friend to a car accident about 9 years ago.
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Sad news indeed. My condolences to his family and friends.
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Don't blame yourself man. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and his family.
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Really sorry to hear this, his family will be in our prayers
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Sorry about your friend, thats very unfortunate. About 1.5 yr ago I lost a close friend that I had known for 25+ yrs - he took his own life and I knew how it was, it didnt help- I tried to help him through his divorce and get on with life. I feel like I failed. I feel your pain, my thoughts are with you.
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You cant blame yourself Miguel, God does have a plan for everyone, unfortunately he takes people to soon, but he is in a better place.. Our prayers go out to his family and your family..
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Don't beat yourself up over this. he left us doing what he loved to do. I've been in a similar wreck and once you hit that pothole and everything breaks loose you can't control the car...
may he rest in peace.
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sorry for ur loss and his family R I P
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Sorry to hear, bad stuff happens to so many good people it doesnt seem right. You cannot blame yourself for anything as things happen and there is nothing to you can do about it. Just remember him for what he was and never forget.
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sorry to hear that man, it really sucks to lose someone close to you, i am not gonna preach about how i know how it feels and all that BS, but just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family, keep strong brother!


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